Some people are just mean. They are unable to deal with others who (they feel) intimidate them for whatever reason. Others who feel the same way keep those feelings to themselves, a sign of maturity. Unfortunately, these people seem to be rare.

I have never ever really been liked by others. It comes with being socially inept and quiet. I have often been the target of gossip. All my experiences have been with ladies I was barely acquainted with. That says a lot.

People who are sensitive and tend to react seem to be targeted. This isn't an excuse for people to resort to abhorrent behaviors. People choose to gossip. The target certainly doesn't make them do it.