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Originally Posted by Ladyofshallot
Please tell me if you think i should write to him...am confused...sometimes seems like a good idea to have my say...but knowing i will not get a response even, another way to play around with my self respect...but he needs to know what he's done...he can't go sailing into the sunset....just like that...but then i do know also now it's no longer about him but me...he's moved on and i need to give myself closure...will this be a closure for me...this communication?
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Depends on your underlying motive and other than writing it out, if it's sent to the winds, will you still find solace?
He can do what he wants,,even sailing into the sunset. By going no contact he already displays lack of empathy.
You've got both a marriage and affair to recover from.
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