I'm not sure if my boyfriend would be upset if I told her no, because I know she would tell him what she had wanted to do. She's also a very, very pushy person....hence the asking me to host a surprise party with less than four days notice, lol. I liken her to a bulldozer.....I likely will have to participate just to avoid looking like a ****** or a party pooper. She told me she is tight on money, otherwise I would have suggested us all just going to a restaurant. I feel so selfish, so I'm trying to slap on a happy face. But just the combination of alcohol, a party I'm not prepared for, with company I don't necessarily favor is giving me anxiety :/