He's as bad as you think. He didn't let you go, he didn't want/hold on to you in the first place; you were a "thing" not a person, especially not "You". Don't take it personally. Why hate him? Waste of your time. No one who is trying to control your life (Facebook account :-) is someone you want in your life; it's your life, not theirs -- they have their own to work with! It's just plain greedy of him to try and control you and tell you what to do, think, feel, etc.