"are there any men that... " Is such a generalization I find it quite limiting in your thinking. Obviously everyone is an individual and there are men that are good in relationships and ones that are not. Asking this question is almost as stereotypical as asking if there are "any women out there that [ fill in your own behavior ] ?" Wouldn't be fair and kind of is writing off the entire gender as if they ALL behave one way or another.

It also makes it sound as if you assume you're doing right always and that is, if ever, rarely the case.

Obvious answer is yes. Whether you find one or not is a different thing altogether.