HI-THis is my first time posting so I am hoping I am doing this correctly. I am divorced with a preschool child. I have been dating my partner long distance who recently just got out of a divorce. He has 2 teenage boys. My partner has met my young song but I will be meeting his boys for the first time soon. He wants me to come visit while my son is away with my ex. I feel like I should go slow and sleep in the spare bedroom. He totally disagrees. We also had talked about a trip that I would bring my son on and all can meet and be fun for all, but I also wanted to stay in our own bedrooms as I just wanted to go slow. This upsets him and he said he feels unwanted and not first. I am just nervous about the teenagers accepting me.. and I also dont want to throw my young child in a room alone too.. even if it is adjoining rooms. He feels the boys understand what goes on behind closed doors so why hide it.. why pretend we are something we aren't. I didnt want to pretend we are just friends or anything but I also just feel nervous about the bedroom when they are just going to be told of me for the first time and then meet me. Who is right? Should I be OK and I am wrong to think the way I am?