Your list said it all. That is really bad stuff...some of us that have been through hard times have this "high tolerance for inappropriate behavior". And still some good things happened...put those in your memories and go through that process of moving on - It sucks...and you learned some really hard lessons..the other person will not change only you can. Take the good and leave the bad behind.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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