I am kind of confused and wondering if I am about to be dumped by my therapist. I had an appt today and I was talking about many things going on. She said I would have to choose one thing I want to work on. I said my anxiety - but that is heavily intertwined with a bunch of trauma(s) She said she was going to throw some psycho-babble at me and that is when she mentioned transference and counter-transference and would have to consult with someone about my care. I didn't have time to ask what she meant because time was up and she had a patient waiting.

I have googled what this means. I have met with my therapist only 3-4 times. There is no romantic interest. She doesn't remind me anyone (ex family/or my ex) The counter-transference I kind get is it something I could have said in session that triggered the therapist?

I am confused...