You've listed every reason to leave this abusive man and then some.

But left no clue as to why it is you've bothered to stay...

I stayed, I thought love would conquer all, that we could work through his anger blah blah blah... what actually happend eventually is that he worked through his anger via his fists.

But I wasn't smart like you, I never spoke up, or voiced my concerns to anyone about his behaviour. Nobody approved of our relationship, and I didn't wanna give them anymore ammo, who knows, maybe if I did I would've avoided those blue eyes and bruised ribs.

Look, even if he never beats you to a pulp, the crux of the matter is that what he's doing now is unacceptable, you deserve better, its non negotiable.