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The bit of me annoyed with her wants to be highly unreasonable and point out that it's hurtful to suddenly make a significant change in how you treat somebody. But it's everyone's choice (I mean not just therapists) to change their boundaries if they are uncomfortable with them, so I can't really say that[/quote]

How is it unreasonable to tell her you feel hurt because she is not seeing you as frequently?

I could see demanding that she see you more as unreasonable, perhaps, or cursing at her about it, or acting manipulative, but I don't think the feelings you have or expressing them are at all unreasonable.

Why wouldn't you be struggling with losing so much contact?

Anyhow, I wonder if this decrease and the previous confusion are two of the factors in you wanting to leave therapy.