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Originally Posted by Leah123
How is it unreasonable to tell her you feel hurt because she is not seeing you as frequently?
I could see demanding that she see you more as unreasonable, perhaps, or cursing at her about it, or acting manipulative, but I don't think the feelings you have or expressing them are at all unreasonable.
Why wouldn't you be struggling with losing so much contact?
Anyhow, I wonder if this decrease and the previous confusion are two of the factors in you wanting to leave therapy.
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Well, it
feels unreasonable, because...well, because she gave me such a great gift. I worked out I've had $15,000 of free therapy in a short few months - and that's a while ago now, so that figure is still climbing. It feels most churlish and entitled to even bring it up that I would like it to be how it was before, where I had loads and loads of contact of all sorts. Like...if someone brings you an ice-cream, you enjoy it and are touched that they thought of you, you don't get ratty with them for not buying you one again the next day, right?
Also, I know that she has had health issues and an operation recently, and I am hesistant to take anyone to task and pick holes in the help they're offering when they aren't feeling well.
Argh it is flamin annoying though. Even today I'm annoyed because I've had no response to the text I sent this morning or the voicemail I left late afternoon. Which makes me feel a bit awkward going in tomorrow for an appointment. It's all such a bloody headache.