I often hear people say that flirting is normal, and there's no harm in it. But when it comes to flirting while in a committed relationship, I personally find that to be a different story. When you're single you can be with, flirt with, do with whoever you want, but once you're in a serious relationship you're committing yourself to one person and one person only. That being said, how do people consider it "normal" and "okay" to flirt with someone other than your spouse? I have always thought of flirting as something you do with someone you have a crush on or want to develop a relationship with, so I definitely wouldn't be engaging in that type of thing while I'm in a serious relationship. Does anyone have any thoughts on this? Am I missing something about the whole flirting thing? Because I just feel like when you trace it back to the original reason why people flirt it's more than just "harmless" as they claim.