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Old Apr 23, 2014, 02:06 PM
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I've never thought I would be one to start a termination thread, but the way today's session went I must say I'm a bit worried. So basically I told T that I had a job interview last week and another one coming up soon. Both for jobs I'd be really interested in and I'm confident I will get at least one offer. As expected she was really happy for me.
Then we spent the rest of the session, a good half hour, talking about our horses. This did help me because T was the first person to give me her honest opinion about my horse since the vet told me he has soft tissue issues in his foot. While everyone tries to cheer me up, she agreed with me that this is not good and considering his other health issues I will probably have to put him down sometime in the future. She really helped me feel less guilty about this happenning to him, and reassured me that I will know when the time has come. But part of me wonders if I really need to see a T for this kind of stuff...

Then when it was time to schedule my next session, she asked if I was ok with every 4 weeks as I'm so stable at the moment and doing well. I must admit it was quite logical and I know it shouldn't be an issue. I'll see her every week for group anyway and if anything major comes up I can call her.
But what I worry about is whether she wants this do be a permanent thing until termination or if it's only temporary because there's not much we can work on until I have moved out. She doesn't want to work on my CSA until I'm out of the place it all happenned in, and we can't do much for my eating disorder until I have to cook myself as this is what I struggle with.

I guess once we start working on these things we'llgo back to weekly or biweekly session, but right now I'm freaking out a bit because I'm not sure and forgot to ask...
Hugs from:
AllyIsHopeful, LaborIntensive, ThisWayOut