Oh, then I had it right a while ago, I did think you were a male, but someone told me I was wrong and that you were a woman which confused me and the person was insistent. I am sorry about that pachyderm. Even with that mistake, you still have the same challenges, you were still at a challenging and delicate age when your father left and being the middle child is known to be a challenging spot because of how that child is not the oldest being in a more controlling position nor the youngest that often gets passes and may not have been quite old enough to be as affected as you were. And you were probably the more sensitive in the group too.

What is the age difference between you and your brothers?