the key to better self esteem is to do things that make you feel good. I don't care much for my appearance so I just don't look at myself but I don't think I have low self esteem. I am very good at what I do. I enjoy what I do. it makes me feel good so I gain a lot of satisfaction from it. I like to paint. I am good at it. it makes me feel good. this boosts my self esteem. I am a good writer. this gives me something to be proud of. boosts my self esteem. just start finding things that are good about you. what are your strengths. revel in them and you will find your self esteem blooming. take care.