It's hard to compete when they are "intoxicated" with their new man. Men do the same thing...usually when reality sets in..they come back to you. The other reality..
is friendships change. Some friends stay in your life and we accept that things change and there is not enough time like it use to be - you can still care about each other. It hurts for awhile. Sometimes we just outgrow a friendship. I understand it hurts.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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