dear couple's t, I know we decided community meets were better for all involved (financially, in terms of time and distance), but it's really weird. I hope the ice cream shop is a tad more comfortable than the coffeeshop was 2 weeks ago. also, I cant believe we only have 3 weeks left before this huge change (2.5, but we can see you 3 times because of the way our departure falls)... holy cow. I may panic, or I may ignore everything the wife and I need to talk about... we noticed that we both do the same thing around heavy topics: take all the blame, blow it out of proportion, and end up avoiding talking about it. I hope there's seclusion enough to be able to broach that topic tomorrow.

dear individual t, I think I need to ask you when you read the blog, because sometimes the stats go up and it's only supposed to be you reading. It's making me nervous that the wife may be reading it without telling me. If that's the case, then I'm changing passwords on everything... Also, please know I'm looking for more support without having to say those words exactly. I'm not comfortable asking for it, so I need you to know that I'm kinda floundering here and could use the extra help without having to say it in so many words. I will however try to ask for a shift in the scheduling the week you get back from vacation because 3 weeks will have been way too long.