Right now his grief is so overwhelming, you are out of his thoughts. I understand how that could be really hurtful as you need his support and love. It is good that he has something positive, your baby to focus on and he can see ways his mother's legacy lives on. Can you tell him it's hurtful that he didn't acknowledge the baby would also be beautiful like you? Has he gotten any grief counseling? I understand a little. I wear my brother's dog tags. I kiss his tags. I talk to him and I kiss his picture. I see his features and mannerisms in my nephews and it's comforting that parts of him live on. Also, you may want to get counseling as dealing with your husband's grief and having a baby are very.stressful. may angels surround you.