Sounds like you're in a great place, imnotokayipromise! It's wonderful to be able to put what you know to be true on the inside, into words you can then use to communicate with the world at large.

Somewhere in this forum, I have a post I wrote titled: The Vocabulary of Transsexuality. In this post I wrote about my own struggles with not having that vocabulary & how wonderful it was to finally find it.

Congrat's!