It takes a conciencious therapist to recognize that they are not helping you heal and to suggest you find someone who is more compatible or qualified to help you. Whether this new t is a marriage counselor or someone you find on your own please find one you are comfortable with and who you think can help you. That you have stuck with it even through all the pain you have been feeling shows how determined you are. Please don't give up on yourself. There are good t out there just take your time finding the right one for you.