I hear his point. I also read where he said, he'll respect your wishes, to me, no red flags.

I've been told, by my dad, eventually, the kids grow and I deserve my own happiness. I'd already been intimate with my ldr bf without kids around. When he came to visit, sharing my bed, felt appropriate, even his meeting my kids first time. I didn't exactly have space, to ship him to the floor in living room, nor did having him rent a hotel seem feasible. My kids don't seem harmed by this. My kids entertain the idea of a secondary male role model, in their lives. 8year old son, posed marriage question and 'ewwed' at kissing, in jovial manner. But that was mutually agreeable to everyone.

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