It's sure tiring. I realized I can't keep doing it. I just do my best and let the chips fall where they may, knowing I am never going to be one of those people who is so good at social things and says the right things most of the time. I accept that about myself. Some people are so judgmental. I don't want to be like them. Sometimes I can't accept what someone has said/done to me, but in many cases that is just about my preference, not about them doing something bad. They also can't know what drives me crazy, and they probably won't care or often don't understand if I tell them. In conclusion, we have to live with a lot of uncertainty in social matters. That's just the way it is, and it can't be fixed most of the time.