I think, in my case, two of my three have faint recollections, in any of my marriage, to their father. This is first man, I've ever introduced to them, much less dated post divorce. It will be four years, in June. My so/bf and I discussed, in detail, how to approach this. Where relocating is being discussed, one direction or the other, my circumstances, my children can appreciate, this is very serious.

I mistook, his agreeing to not share a bed, as respecting your wishes. A little less Hemming and hawing, would be nice. Then again, it's a discussion between both of you, noone here in PC has be privy to overhearing.

I don't have teens, the way my boys are turning out, I'm certain if they were, we'd discuss it ahead of time, same way i did before my so/bf's arrival,,last visit. I'd asked if it would make them uncomfortable. No, was unanimous.

It's a big step.

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