My counselor is the one not wanting to commit me to an explanation, for lack of a better term. My psych NP (my med person) will give me a direct answer, but I want them both to. Maybe I'm just being stubborn. My counselor specializes in eating disorders though which is why I'm seeing her now. She did diagnose me as both bi-polar and ADHD, but not BPD based on DSM-V but she definitely focuses on how I think about things rather than what is causing them. Maybe once we get through the eating disorder stuff, if that ever happens! I can look for someone with more focus on the bi-polar stuff. I just want this to be easy!!!!!!