Thanks guys .. I'm just laying here now thinking do I want to go down this road . He knows I have an issue with the other walking away from a problem or discussion and pretending like nothing wrong .. Atleast on big topics.. It was an issue with my ex. So here I am Again with someone doing the same thing . And yes I agree he knows I'm bothered but tried to act happy to avoid . I'm really trying to think now what is best . I love him but yes as you pointed out I need to watch the road I take for my son and I. I can't be with someone controlling who will control my son or myself for that matter .