Not only other people getting involved...but the "cheer" of the ignorant crowd for THINKING that the person filling their head is all full of facts. The one making the family dysfunction public is the one that can't deal with different opinions, has serious PTSD, and likes to carry around her own chalk while playing the victim and also thinks that our family members are running around lying and talking bad about her when in reality we are just exhausted by her rants and don't even want to hear about them anymore. We have healed from it and moved on. She's stuck in her childhood and trying to keep us there as well.
I don't think it's right for someone to publicly put our family on blast...to everyone, whether they ask or not, it's just out there. What shes failing to see is that the abuse throughout the family wasn't JUST hers. She has a right to tell HER story, but NOT the rest of ours (how could she possibly know the entirety of OUR story anyway?). How dare her tell everyone without MY permission what I endured?
I'm glad I don't feel the need to justify myself to others, knowing that she blasts untruthful things about me. People can see that she is full of anger and bitterness and it is overcoming her.
Sorry, I don't know if this was an appropriate place to write about it. It just called out some "omg!" feelings. :P
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