Hello, lwood797, and welcome to Psych Central!

I have to say I agree with hvert. As the saying goes, it sounds like he wants to "have his cake and eat it, too." It doesn't sound to me like he is really ready to settle down with one girl. Perhaps some immaturity, too?

I know it might be hard, but I think you should consider looking around to see what other men are available. I wouldn't want a relationship with a man I couldn't trust.