Asiablue
I find family can just push that button that leaves you feeling small and back in a place you don't want to be and it can feel like all your hard work never even happened.
This is so true, it can be like going backwards in time back to a place you don't want to be, back into the little mouse of a invisible unimportant person you used to be.
No contact with people who do not want you to 'grow' and get stronger.