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Old Apr 25, 2014, 03:59 PM
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Originally Posted by bluebird14 View Post
I just wasn't being overly talkitive I guess cuz i was hurt.. normally I talk more and he listens and I was letting him talk.. He was being overly happy and talkitive than the norm.
Perhaps you clammed up, mulling it over?. LDR's are tough, and having to appeal to insecurities must be the pits?
I'm in one, but am grateful, i don't have the checking in thing going on. I couldn't bear that, after what my ex pulled me through. I'm the one, who will grow quiet, actually, if there's a heavy discussion and I'm mulling. I get to say so, and topic tabled or emailed. Carrying out an argument through night would be deal breaking for me, from him. Not that there's really been many, less than a handful in all this time.

When your bf says he's working on it, is it lip service or is he in counseling? He is recovering from divorce, after all. You're here, if not in t, clearly evident you know how to reach for help, kwim?

Some of descriptions, two posts up, remind me of my ex....my radar is up, how much will you both see each other before major decisions?

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