He told me he hates how like on the weekends I'll give him a run down of my plans errands play dates etc and only send a text here or there during day . Now keep in mind I'm going store to store or at someone's house for play date . He says he feels not thought of . It drives me crazy . He said he gets frustrated to find out I'm back home for hours and don't even let him know . Now keep in mind he doesn't fill me in . I told him I don't feel I need to text ever min and honestly I've tried it and I feel so guilty as I'm staring at phone vs son so I stopped . I wonder if I would be diff if lived closer . I see the controlling signs and why I don't walk away I don't know . Ugh