ak482, I've read your entire thread and man.... i wish I could help or had some answers, and I am really happy, and feel you did the right thing by coming here to post your issues for us to vent, and hopfully help you somehow. Your's is a tough issue, so dunnow can any of us actuly help you with it. But I have ben following this thread (lurking it actually) since you started it. And one thing i can say I know is, that love and/or sex can happen at any time Bro. Your life can rock along at its normal pace for many years, and then al at once, WHAM. Some girl will show up who changes everything, you get me? Buddy, I cant say when or even if you'll find a GF, I'm not a seer or anything. All's I can say is, what happen to me. I was a virgin too, and then one evening after work I met a girl who liked me, and I was blown away. i felt I was the ugliest loser in the state, but this girl come into my life and changed everything, within like 2 weeks. My point is, at ANY second on any day things can AND WILL flip arond. Do a 180 on ya.

thats how it happen to me, and I was a very late bloomer too. OK? Well, and so the girl of my dreams come into my life, all of a sudden. So. it can and will happen for you too buddy.

Beau