That is horrible what happened to you hunny. You are definitely not alone. I was sexually abused by my brother. And to top it off when my parents found out I got in trouble and was told it was non sense. Shows you how ****ed up my childhood was. Anyways I've ALWAYS had trouble with sex and intimacy. There are certain areas that I cannot be touched in or I get very jittery and I have to stop having sex with my partner. Its been hard to deal with for many reasons but most of all something was taken away from me...and I can never get it back. My right to really have a healthy sex life. I've talked with my therapist about it and it does help. I really feel bad for you. I'm hoping you'll find some healing thru this upcoming appt thru the sexual assault referral. Just like some of the others have said...good relationships are NOT based on sex. It's about two people who genuinely love eachother. Feel free to pm me as I'd be happy to be a support for you. You'll find great relief from therapy. I know I did. Hugs

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