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Originally Posted by Yogix
To be honest, I think this was perfect. I think this is exactly what you needed to do. Why do I feel that way? Because I've followed your posts, and it seems you do let her get away with a LOT - even you said that in this when you said when you hear her voice things go away. But the real reason I think this is needed is because all the abandonment you've been through and the hurt, it shows that you are becoming strong in that you aren't afraid to go off on someone and that fear of being abandoned seems to have subsided. At least with LCM.
I think this was absolutely perfect, growli. Will you share her response? I'm curious as to how she will react.
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Well I did follow that up an hour later with a string of apologizes saying I was too harsh and begging her to stay. So it hasn't totally subsided lol.
I'll share her response. She'll probably just say she's sorry again. She said she was sorry earlier and that being upset makes sense. And then that she was so tired she was delirious. I told her I understand what happened and I don't need an explanation. Her response to that was kinda just lightheaded surprise at my callousness "you said you were a little bit upset. I'm going to sleep darling. Thank you for understanding". Her response will be short in writing. She doesn't respond to long emails.