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Old Apr 26, 2014, 02:36 AM
Anonymous200320
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The test doesn't seem to apply to me, but I took it anyway. Since I have only ever had one relationship, I can't answer about relationships in general, only about the one I am in, and I guess that's why the result does not seem to apply very well. (Fairly low anxiety, extremely high avoidant. I think that's a pretty judgmental term to apply to a person who simply wants to keep my private life to myself. I would like to live in a relationship where I could talk about things that bother me, but that is not in the hand I have dealt myself.)

It is rather amusing how much we take things that depend on current social conventions for granted. 100 years ago, 200 years ago, it would be completely normal to not confide one's worries to one's partner. Many people did, I'm sure, but many people did not, and there was no societal judgment of those.