I agree with the others on this one, your life coach in my oppinion should be helping you on your growth and independence, rather than fostering dependancy. It seems you are stuck on not seeing beyond your life coach as far as not wanting to reach towards others, or at least give it a try, I dont see any boundaries in this relationship with your life coach, at the moment, so its not like she is an acting t, its more in the lines of a friendship and a blurred life coach, I can call a friend at 2 am, I cant call a t, at 2 am.

I am wondering, if your life coach has worked through her issues, in my oppinion

of course, sometimes people like other people to be dependent on them to feel needed, this could be a possiblility here , but I hope not, she is suppose to be helping you, have your best interest, pushing you to get a new t, or tt, even if it is temporary, just to give you that head start.

Its been a long time, by now, you should have had a tt, and a new t, if not on your own, but with her help, even if you didnt want to talk to them at first, even if you just sat there the whole hour, non verbal communication speaks a thousand words.