Hi growly, nobody, is telling you to leave lc, what I read hear and I agree and have posted myself is that, boundaries, if any, are very blurred here on her part, that is why a t is very important, to foster independence, structure and boundaries, to help you grow, along with your lc, as a mentor.

if your lc says she will meet , or text or call you at a certain time, and lets you down, because she forgets, apologizes, but keeps doing it, thats a setback for your self esteeem. In a therapeutic relationship, its different.

It seems in my oppinion your lc is more of a friend or something in between, not as a professional lc as I read a description on google. Not to demean her, because I know she has been there for you.

But not with the right toolbox, she has the right intentions, but not equipped, its like calling a plumber, to perform surgery, he may want to save you, and try, and care, but not equipped.