So it sounds like everyone kind of develops their own reasons for enjoying having relationships, but that the urge to have those relationships is a bit unexplainable, and is *just there*. Would that be right?

Suppose for a moment that one of your parents was crying, or a sibling was. Would seeing them like that affect you? And if so, why, and what would you do?

Or suppose that a friend has been struggling with something lately and has been looking to you for support. Would you give them the time to provide it? Or would you seek out the company of someone less needy?

Sorry for all these questions... I'm trying to understand how other people process one another.