I'm not trying to tell you to leave her. You can see a T short term while you still see her. She is not a licensed T herself so there's no conflict there. This is just a suggestion out of concern and not a judgement against LCM. It just appears that you are lowering of your expectations from someone because you are scared to lose her (like what happens when we settle for a significant other). This not a tiny issue and is way more than poor time management skills. If she were employed in a clinic setting and did these things she would have had multiple complaints by now. It doesn't mean she isn't a good caring person at all. But I do think it means that she is in over her head, is losing control of the situation and you both may need some outside help.