His...for sure. Just reread what you wrote....reread it a couple of times until the fog of his deceit ceases to make sense. Really. That whole event and text messaging could have been ripped from the pages of my ex and myself.

It actually gave me chills and I admit much much anger.

It was a game with him and is with your bf. Please don't play it. It will go badly for you.........and for your son.