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Apr 26, 2014, 05:49 PM
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If one of my family members were crying, I'd figure out what the problem was & tell them to solve it. I wouldn't really be swayed by their tears, though. And if a friend has been struggling? Depends on the friend. I dislike needy people & avoid that weakness at all costs... But I don't mind helping people who otherwise have their **** together. It feels like they actually deserve it.
I'd agree with the observation that everyone comes up with their own reasons why they appreciate the company of another person but the drive itself is inexplicable. I'm still trying to figure out why exactly I seek close relationships & what they do for me... I'll get back to this if my introspection proves fruitful! 
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