Hey! I'm new to this site and made a profile almost entirely for this issue I'm having. Ok here goes...
For as long as I can remember I have freaked out about so many things in my relationship. I overreact to a lot of stuff because I'm overly strict with myself and am so scared of "settling" that I create problems where there are none. I know this. Now heres the back story

I have only every been in one relationship my whole life. I am still in it and it is amazing. We communicate, we love each other, we keep things interesting, we grow together and support one another and I am just so happy with it. We have been dating for 3 and a half years. Now, I'm only a sophomore in college and lately, I've been worried about the future. About, so I really want just one relationship for the rest of my life, and almost threw away the incredible relationship I have now because of that fear.

Now, I did consider the possibility that these feelings of wanting to experience dating other people were normal, but I realized that I don't want to see other people at all. I'm just so worried about screwing up my life that I want to take every precaution and make sure I'm doing right by myself. But I already am...

So, my point here, and the issue I'd be asking for advice on is, how can i stop this anxiety from coming back? Because it always does. Its always in the back of my mind and its not fair for me or my boyfriend. How can I stop thinking about the future to such a degree that it ruins my present? Because this anxiety always comes back, and it comes back strong. I fear for me and my relationship. I just want to be happy with what I am blessed to have.