IndestructibleGirl-
This is too much to not talk to her about. If you don't bring this up to her, you're going to resent it. Big time.
Our therapists will make mistakes, and sometimes inadvertently bring needs into our therapies. However, if it happens once, twice...maybe three times--it can be a mistake. If it happens more than that, it's negligence, imo....and I haven't even read all of your threads.
Moving on sounds like a smart thing to do. I'm glad she has helped you with what she could, but you deserve to have a life-changing therapy.
eta-sorry, I don't know your whole story, and I think my response could have been over-reactive!