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Old Apr 27, 2014, 01:58 AM
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It went well! I was impressed by how well my T could dance. But I will be honest, the next time I see her in the office, I will only picture her dancing. And she wanted to come dancing again, so I think im going to say yes again. Pretty sure shes just trying to get me out of my comfort zone and just try something new. There was no touching between T and I, no we did not dance together. But she did give me her phone to look up something and our hands touched briefly. I felt weird having her phone and she just got up and danced and left me with her phone! Also she paid for my ticket, but I paid her back.
I'm glad it went well. But in my opinion, this is NOT therapy- she should be encouraging you to go out with your friends (if you want to) not take you out herself- I'd worry that this is making you more dependent on her and feeding into your, already existing, transference
Hope she knows what she's doing and not meeting her needs via her clients- be safe
Thanks for this!
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