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Originally Posted by Mastodon
I do wish they would come up with neutral terms rather than positively (secure) and negatively (avoidant, dismissive, fearful, preoccupied) loaded ones.
[edited to add: Thanks for posting these tests!]
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These words do have specific meanings in this context; they are not there to indicate like morally good. I see it more like a positively or negatively charged ion - the positively charged ones will attach, the negatively charged ones will not. Or like magnets. Or else its just proof of Tolstoys maxim - happy families are all alike; unhappy families different?