Hi BI, Welcome to PC!!! It sounds like you're having a really hard time and feel that you have no-one really to turn to or who understands you??
If you feel that your mom isn't really listening or "getting" your feelings it might be more that she doesn't realise how badly you're feeling about things instead of her not caring.
If you're having problems talking to her, do you think you could write down some of the things going on for you/how they're making you feel (just as you're telling us here) and just ask her to read it?
As for your friends maybe have a think about whether some of them are really your friends or not?? But if you think some of them are genuine maybe tell them how what they're saying is making you feel and give them that chance to support you more??
But with your dad, could you phone him a bit more, open up to him about how you're feeling?? It sounds like you think he would maybe be there for you, so it might help if you could just tell him some of what's going on??
And if you want to talk more here..............
Alison