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Originally Posted by Rose3
Is it possible for you and he to go for some couple or family counselling? 15 years is a long time together. Maybe there are some issues (from his point of view) that he would like to be addressed (but he hasn't found a way to communicate with you?)? Is there something that he wants changed? From your point of view - are there some things that you want changed; and how would you like things to turn out? In your place of residence - is your name on the title? Do you need to speak with a lawyer? If he is leaving, how will you support yourself?
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Thank you Rose3 for getting back to me - it means a lot. I know that there are some issues both ways. We had spoken about it sometime before. There are issues I wanted to speak about in counselling. However, he has always been
against counselling. I could never figure it out.
The job situation and age is also a current factor (I realize I didn't
think of including that when I wrote earlier). I believe that he is still with me because without work, my family has is temp. assisting us in the short - med. term. I realize that this was the reason fo r'good behavious' when he changed, hence the 'mixed feelings'. He has no choice.
I have a bad feeling about this, but am trying to handle it esp. fo rmy child.
Thanks again for taking the time to get back to me! I really appreciate it
