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Originally Posted by crying_inside
I am married to a man who just got out on parole. He lives in a halfqway house right now. Since he got out just under a year ago, he has violated twice. Now i was on leave with him and i looked at the history of my phone. He has been accessing pornography. I am so torn between just talking to him or telling his parole officer. It is a stipulation of his parole of no porn. I just thought he was playing a game but he accessed it. I welcome any advice.
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well you have a tough situation there, if you tell his parole office..he's going back to prison, at least that's how they do it in Ohio. In all likelyhood the
laws are probably similar in your neck of the woods, i have an ex that just went back to prison because of her violation( she has a bad drug problem) maybe 2wks ago, you have a much more difficult situation because this was an ex girlfriend for me, but in your case you are married to this man. I would try to talk to him, but in my experience prison does things to people..they are not the same when they come out, so it may go in one ear and out the other
still, because he is your husband i would at least try to talk to him, really if that is a stipulation no porn, than it should be no porn and he needs to know that! i can tell you it will not be easy..i wish you luck!
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