Well, my results on this one put me solidly in the dismissive category for two types of relationships (my mother and my H), and in the secure area for my dad and my best friend. I am in the faaaaaaar left upper corner with my mother, and much closer to the middle with H. I think the stuff with my dad may be a bit misleading because I didn't FEAR he didn't care as much as about, I just KNEW he didn't. I wonder if that affects the result.