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Originally Posted by hankster
It sounds like you have the rules all mixed up. I dont understand who in your world is allowed to talk and who is allowed to hit. Maybe if you figure out why those rules are confused - like were they messed up when you were a kid? Parents saying do as i say, not as i do? - you'll be able to figure out a set of rules to live by, for yourself and others. But right now they just seem confusing and scary, not helpful. 
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Sorry Hankster I don't really understand this...? But yes, to answer your question my parents were very much do as I say, not as I do and were violent and aggressive. Unfortunately that's what I seemed to be imitating and I hate it