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I think the friends might be trying to protect her..not that they are going about it the right way. Even if you were wonderful about the way the relationship ended, there is still pain..maybe the friends are seeing that pain and want to lash out at you. The most important thing is that you and her know how it ended and the rest does not matter - or it will not for very long.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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